So your mom, your auntie, your Grams and even your pastor seem concerned that you aren’t married yet. They have all kinds of ideas of whom you should date and consider as a life partner. But you are not in a hurry. In fact, you are rather comfortable going solo for now. Here’s what’s special about you. 1. You won’t settle. You have standards and you are not lowering them just to have someone around. You know that if you “settle,” you just won’t be into that other person and the relationship won’t last anyway.