It’s hard to understand when you treat a guy with love and passion, why he turns around and cheats on you, or does something to hurt you. What’s worse then is picking yourself back up and trying to love again. And if it’s that same man, wow, that’s a real challenge to be able to forgive and accept him back.
A lot of your ability and willingness to continue or start over with him is going to depend on a number of things, such as how much time you have already put into the relationship, if he is actually worth it, whether or not there are kids involved and… whether or not he is REALLY ready to change his ways.
So the question becomes… can I trust him (or another man again)?